Foreplay Facts and What We Need to Know

Trusted by millions over the years, foreplay has proven to be a very important part of the sexual experience. In most cases, men are easily aroused in minutes while women may take a little longer to get into the swing of things. Practising exciting foreplay helps both parties reach the peak level of arousal thus making the moment equally pleasurable.

Foreplay and what we need to know:

Though a lot of women don’t find foreplay as intriguing, it is quite important to know why it is important. I have struggled to get into the game of foreplay many times before. It’s natural, ladies. The important part is to be open to new things and to do research on it. I have compiled a list of facts that should be intriguing enough.

1. Being sensual while pursuing foreplay is essential

Skin on skin contact, hands rubbing against each other, breathing against each other’s necks, these all add to what leads to a great game of foreplay. The key here is to separate sensual with sexual. Sensual focuses more on the energy between two people rather than the physical aspects. Even the way you stare at each other makes the world’s difference.

2. Treat it like an appetizer and order one

Too often, couples forgo foreplay altogether and speed ahead to intercourse. And in doing so, they may be setting themselves up for failure. Look at foreplay like the beginning of a great main course. The anticipation before digging into mains creates a satisfying and enjoyable feeling.

3. Remember to focus on other parts of the body

Although the jewels are more attractive than the mine it came from, it is important to remember that there are other parts of the body that crave attention. Some soft kisses down the neck or a firm grip on the thigh can really be a game-changer. It also lets you experience a level of closeness that you would ultimately not have experienced before.

4. Talking about what you like

Not many of us are comfortable telling our partners what we do and don’t like. Being open about your needs/wants can tremendously impact your sexual experience. In order to pleasure a person in all the right places, you need to know what they enjoy and what makes them tick. Share your thoughts with one another and keep it real. You’d be surprised to see what a difference it makes when you lead one another.



Well, I hope some part of this Blog made you think. The key is to always be open to trying out different things to keep your sex life lit!

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Christelle du Plessis
Christelle du Plessis

Sex Editor

Christelle du Plessis was born and raised in the North West province. Her passion is working with young women and creating a space for them where they feel safe to express their emotions and where they will become equipped to change the circumstances they are in. Christelle is a social butterfly and she would like to think of herself as a very strong-minded and determined young woman. Instead of changing the world, she wants to empower people to do it themselves.

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