Fire It Up: Fireworks In Bed

I know that a lot of us struggle to keep things interesting and we tend to turn back to what we know. I am here to let you in on some really great secrets on how to have some really interesting sexcapades and keep the fireworks in bed going.

Being the Sex Editor of such a funky magazine comes with its perks. I get to experiment with so many interesting things, places and brands so that I can tell you how you are going to love them too. This way, YOU get to read about how YOU can ensure the sheets are covered in fun-filled moments.


We overlook the fact that music speaks to our emotions a lot of the time. I strongly believe that the right rhythm and lyrics can really warm up the hormones. My favorite song when it comes to getting down and dirty is a much loved song by Awolnation called Sail. If you have never felt like you should get paid for being sexy, this song will make you feel that way!


If you are somewhat unsure as to whether you would be into these kinds of things, the friendly team from Play With Me will definitely help! I never used to be interested in what toys can bring to the table but let me tell you, it brought more to the table than a fine dining restaurant’s waiters ever could. Two of my ultimate favorite toys thus far are: MaleStation Vibrating Ring and the Fifty Shades Bullet Vibrator. The different vibration settings make it hard not to love them. Both of these bad boys made a blue Monday so much more colorful.


Lighting a scented candle and spraying some room mist definitely helps too. Whether you are planning on getting all loud and rowdy or are more of a quiet one, the environment plays a big role. I strongly believe in setting the mood with a little good lighting and a sprinkle of a sweet smell. One of my favorite smells while staring right into the eyes of my partner is the smell of Vanilla. It just speaks to my hormones.

Last, but not least, a little lingerie:

So, I have seen some pretty confusing outfits evolve over the years and although it seems like a cliche, pretending to be Nurse Betty might really turn out to be a game-changer. Look, it’s not for everyone and I get that a lot of us are not comfortable in pretending to be something we are not, but it is really rewarding to see the sparkle in your partner’s eyes the moment you wear something out of the ordinary. Something easy to slip out off (wink wink).


Well, there you have it, ladies! I certainly hope this will help someone out there kick it up a notch.

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Christelle du Plessis
Christelle du Plessis

Sex Editor

Christelle du Plessis was born and raised in the North West province. Her passion is working with young women and creating a space for them where they feel safe to express their emotions and where they will become equipped to change the circumstances they are in. Christelle is a social butterfly and she would like to think of herself as a very strong-minded and determined young woman. Instead of changing the world, she wants to empower people to do it themselves.

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